Mary Todd Lincoln, 1818-1882

Photographed by Mathew Brady in 1862. Presented at the National Portrait Gallery, Smithsonian Institution. Photo credit - WWP team

American First Lady, the wife of Abraham Lincoln – the 16th President of the United States.

Mary Ann Todd Lincoln was born in Lexington, Kentucky, as the fourth of seven children of a wealthy family, who had a big household and owned slaves. Mary was well educated, learned French, drama, and music. When she was 6 years old, her mother passed away, and her father remarried not long after. Mary and her stepmother didn’t get along, and at the age of 21, she moved to Springfield, IL, to live with her older sister. Her wit and outgoing attitude attracted several admirers, among them was Abraham Lincoln. Mary’s family did not approve the match since Lincoln was 9 years older than her, came from a poor background, and had little education, but they still got married.

Mary supported her husband’s career as a lawyer and a politician, even when he was absent for months, and she had to take care of their four children by herself. She helped to promote his public life, hosting events, and giving strategic advice. During the Civil War, she remained a Unionist, though her family supported the south and several of her half-brothers served in the Confederate Army. Mary accompanied her husband on military visits to the battlefields, visited wounded soldiers and wrote letters for them to send to their families. Despite that, at the White House she had a bad reputation and considered outspoken and lavish spender.

Mary was holding President Lincoln’s hand at the Ford’s Theatre when he was assassinated on April 14th, 1865. As a widow, she returned to Chicago to live with her children, while lobbying to get a pension from the Congress, claiming that she deserves one just as much as other soldiers’ widows.

At the age of 53, she lost a third son (after two died in their childhood), and suffered from depression, mood swings, and paranoid thoughts, until her eldest son sent her to a mental institution, where she tried to commit suicide. After she was released from the hospital, Mary spent few years traveling throughout Europe, but when her health got worse, she returned to the US to live with her sister until she died at the age of 64.

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Activism & Feminism

Abigail Adams, 1744-1818

A Founding Mother of the United States, a Women’s Rights Advocate, and the Second First Lady.

Abigail Smith was born and raised in Massachusetts. Her father was a liberal minister, her mother was a member of the famous Quincy family mother, and she had two sisters. At a time when women were not allowed to receive a formal education, she was homeschooled and satisfied her appetite for knowledge at the family’s library, forming progressive views. After a two-year courtship, she married John Adams, a country lawyer, and became his closest advisor and partner. They settled in the house John had inherited from his father in Braintree, MA. When his practice expanded, John had to frequently travel while Abigail managed their finances, investments, household, and growing family. For a while, they even moved to Boston next to his practice. Between 1784 and 1788, Abigail joined John in his diplomatic missions in Paris and London. On March 4th, 1797, John became the second president of the United States, and she was the first lady. They lived in the Presidential Mansion in Philadelphia and later in the White House in Washington, DC. She was a politically active first lady, made frequent public appearances, and was involved in the decision-making process, paving the way for future first ladies to be proactive figures. When John lost presidential re-election, the family retired to Peacefield in Quincy in 1800. During his frequent travels before and during the presidency, the couple corresponded in more than 1100 letters, where Abigail demonstrated her talent for writing and opinionated spirit. In one of those letters, she urges her husband to consider women’s rights in the new legislation after independence, warning that if not given equal representation: “women will rebel.” He dismissed her suggestion by writing back that it makes him laugh, but her words “remember the ladies” became an iconic feminist slogan. Before her death, she wrote a will favoring her female relatives. It was an act of protest against the laws prohibiting married women from owning assets. This post is also available in: Español Read more...
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Arts

Adelaide Johnson, 1859-1955

A feminist artist and sculptress, known as “The sculptor of the women’s suffrage movement.”

Born as Sarah Adeline Johnson in Plymouth, IL, to a family of farmers. She received her education attending rural schools, and after graduation, she began her art training, taking classes at the St. Louis School of Design. She was only 18 years old when she exhibited her artworks at the 1877 St. Louis Exposition, and thanks to the prizes she won, she was able to move to Chicago and make a living from her art. At 23, on her way to her studio, she fell 20 feet into an open elevator shaft. She was severely injured, but the compensation fee she was awarded enabled her the financial freedom to study sculpture and painting in Europe. As a feminist and women’s rights activist, she expressed her political views in her art. Among the many individual busts she sculptured, were busts of the Suffrage Movement’s leaders – Elizabeth Cady Stanton, Susan B. Anthony, and Lucretia Mott, which she presented in the World Columbian Exposition in Chicago in 1893 (The busts are currently located at the Belmont-Paul Women’s Equality National Monument Museum). She wanted to put the busts as a group monument at the US Capitol Rotunda but did not get the support at that time. After the 19th Amendment was ratified, she got the funding from the philanthropist Alva Belmont and the commission from the National Woman’s Party. She went to Italy to bring an 8-ton piece of marble to her studio and created her most famous artwork – “Group Portrait Monument to Lucretia Mott, Elizabeth Cady Stanton, and Susan B. Anthony.” The statue was dedicated in a special ceremony on Susan B. Anthony’s birthday, February 15th, 1921, in the US Capitol. This was the pick of Johnson’s career. During the 1930s, her career declined, and she had financial problems. In 1939, 80 years old Johnson invited the press to witness how she destroys her own artworks as a protest against her living conditions as well as against her shattered dream of opening a studio-museum honoring the suffragists and women’s rights organizations. This post is also available in: Español Read more...
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Law

Alice Paul, 1885-1977

A leader for women’s rights and famous for promoting a federal constitutional amendment for woman suffrage.

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Science & Technology

Amelia Earhart, 1897-c.1939

A pioneering pilot who set many aviation records, including the first female pilot to cross the Atlantic Ocean and the first person to fly solo across the Pacific Ocean.

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